Do your kids have permission to be greater than you? Or better yet, do they even know this is an option?

My teenage daughter, Kenya, attended the Energetic Synthesis of Being (ESB) class with me a couple of weeks ago. She got up to the mic and asked for some facilitation regarding ulcerative colitis.

Dr. Dain Heer gave her a bunch of processes and clearings to run, but he also said this:

Everywhere you’re not willing to be greater than your mom because she’s such a controlling… you know… let’s destroy and uncreate that.

What energy, space and consciousness can I be to be greater than my mom and all of my grandmas for all eternity?

Being great means that you can see what everybody is doing, not be affected by it, and just look for possibilities. Being a teenage superior bitch and acting like you’re better than others isn’t being great. Be the greatness you can be. The reason I’m saying be greater than your mom and your grandmas is because they are people you aware of, if you allow yourself to be greater than them, you will be an energy that will allow your space to increase and so will theirs. You can use anyone as a reference point, but because they are so close to you, if you’ll run the clearing you will stop cutting off energies that they cut off and you’ll be able to receive them and have them in your body and not have to cut off the energy of being you have available.

That last part was a lot to comprehend! Basically he was saying that when you cut off the energies in you that you perceive in others, you are denying your greatness.

Later at our hotel that night, I asked Kenya if she’s ever given any thought to being greater than her parents. She wasn’t even aware of that as a possibility. Like “who is actually greater than their parents?”

I told her that I want my kids to be greater than me. I want them to out create me. I want them to be more, do more, have more, etc.

Part of the reason I do what I do is so that they CAN be greater than me.

Through the conversation Kenya all of a sudden got a glimpse that it’s okay to be greater than our parents and it became a possibility in her world.

So, where are you not allowing yourself to be greater than others? And how would your life change if you allowed yourself to be?

And like Dain said, being greater doesn’t mean you have to be a superior bitch. Stop cutting off the energies of you and be the greatness YOU can BE.